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Every morning, we believe that choosing what to wear means expressing exactly who we are. But what if getting dressed has never really been an act of expression, but rather an act of construction?
If we think about it, every day we can actually be a different person. Before a job interview, we might choose a pinstripe suit to appear more authoritative and serious, or we might opt for a more casual look because we do not feel the need to attract attention.
Yet, what if getting dressed has never truly been an act of complete self-expression, but rather an act of performance? Every day, we choose how to present ourselves to the world, yet what we show does not always match with who we really are.
The philosopher Judith Butler describes dressing as an act of performing gender. It is a conscious and performative choice, something we continuously construct through repeated actions.
The same can be said about the clothes we choose every day, which contribute to shaping our identity. The line is very thin between recognising that we do not actually dress as who we truly are and realising that we dress to communicate who we would like to become.
During my teenage years, I spent the hard-earned money from my summer jobs buying designer clothes. I wanted to project a status I had never possessed before. I was not seen or recognised for my clothing, and when I compared myself to my friends, I always felt inadequate because I did not own the trendiest outfits of the moment.
Why did it matter so much to me?
Status, acceptance, fear of exclusion, or perhaps a desire to belong?
In reality, it is all connected to the sociology of clothing—to the way a particular garment or brand is perceived by society, and how, based on those perceptions, people place you within the social hierarchy.
The digital age of social media has undoubtedly intensified this mechanism. Clothing has ceased to be a reflection of identity and has become a purely aspirational tool. We no longer dress to go out with our group of friends; we dress to improve our digital image.
More than that, we no longer dress to communicate who we are. We dress to communicate who we would like to become.
Dressing is not a manifestation of identity.
Perhaps dressing has never truly been a manifestation of identity. Perhaps, from the very beginning, it has always been a negotiation of how we want the world to see us.
The real question is no longer what clothes say about us.
The real question is whether clothes have ever truly spoken about us at all—or whether, from the very beginning, they have always reflected shifting social expectations.
Because what we choose to wear never generates from scratch: it arises from the cultural system in which we are embedded. In that sense, dressing is fundamentally an act of social performance.
